Get To Know Your Reasons Behind Why? You Do What You Do- Think And Say-Why Do I Love Bad Boys
There is great power in understanding your motives right now. Knowing your "Why" is the key to fulfillment in all aspects of your life, from home, family, friends, work and passions. When you take a clear stand on your reasonings, your intention will then be a magnet for miracles. Motives, define the nature of your experiences-when you think about something, feel it, and then act on it. We don't always know why we engage in our relationships in the way that we do...we may think we know, but is that the true reasoning Why? ...mostly, because our feelings aren't always logical or in our best interest.. Recognizing, is one key to whether you are being triggered by someone else, or if your behavior is motivated by unresolved issues in the past. At times, subconsciously denying the truth may drive you toward a specific outcome that actually aligns with an intention hidden from your awareness.
For example, you may want to be prominent in your profession, but your desire is not really about sharing your talents, more so, about making yourself feel better, feel empowered, because fame/prominent would cause people to admire and approve of you - and your "why" here is "Why do I need approval ?" see how this motive is not in your best interest ?
Or you may want to reunite with the partner who rejected you because you believe that your love continues to be strong- "Not True" deep down what you really desire is to have the last word with this person, to create chaos and afflict emotional suffering or unhappiness toward this person, only because you can't except this person leaving you or changing the relationships dynamic. You, are now force to confront your "Why"?- abandonment issues, codependent issues, feeling of insignificant or lost-loneliness...childhood trauma.
When you ask yourself, "Why am I feeling like this? and Why did I say that?" spending some time in introspection, the answers may be surprising. In the end, life is all about being loved. Having a deeper understanding of your needs and how to get them met, are the buried treasures of the "Why?" Uncover them by posing the most powerful question you can ask yourself today "What Are My WHY's"?
Knowing the motives behind your career and creative ventures is the ticket to greater success. When you envision your most prosperous life, are you guided by a sense of purpose or by the need to make money, acquire things, save for the future...or all of these ?, do you have a clear understanding of what drives you to meet your goals, the momentum your attention creates, and the wisdom behind your intentions ?
No motive is bad or good, but it must be authentic!, having agendas hidden from yourself will lead to disappointments and possibly failure. You need to start today on being clear about "Why you want the things that you do" ? If your motives are true, accept them. If they are not, change them so you can step into your extraordinary life.
Why Do I Love Bad Boys ...?
Looking at your relationships, which will you choose, to open up to the possibility of love, or to remain isolated to go deeper and commit to mutual passion, or just choose to walk away from all the pain and happiness?
It's time to take responsibility for your truest desire and follow it where it leads... if you move forward with a relationship, know that it will be based in truth and authenticity. You will have made a conscious decision rather than simply hanging on because you don't want to be alone-or ending things because you're afraid of the intensity of genuine connection.
If you keep attracting the "bad boys"..ask yourself "Why Do I Love Bad Boys ?".... now, as a person they are not bad, no one is a bad person they may have behaved bad intentionally or unintentionally, but they are bad for you emotionally . Your intuition or gut feelings have sent you multiple red flags all the time about being used by these boys, part of you feels this is the only kind of love you deserve.. but "Why?".
You kinda know why, you keep pushing those thoughts deep down inside, thinking the truth will never surface again. There comes a time when you have to be authentic to yourself and face this fear, this everyday anxiety and consistence pattern of emotional relationships.- Seers Lifestyle Coaching
Narrow down your life to just a single question: "Who do I need to become, and what do I need to believe, in order to live a life of prosperity, fulfillment and happiness....and Why?
There will be a time when hunches will pay large dividends if you listen to them, take the risk, and act.
Call today, get started on a remote call answering your "Why"? .. Recognize your motives and work through them authentically with a Seers Lifestyle Coach- Tellacoach